Relationship & You

Relationship mistakes

Most of the time, the mistakes in a relationship are unavoidable but they can be avoidable if the person makes some efforts. As there are various things, that people are not aware of relationships and when you come to know about them, it’s already too late. Now the question is what these mistakes are and how people commit them?

Firstly, learn to get out of the fantasy world and face reality. Never assume the things until you know about them. Most of the relationships are like a romantic novel which is awesome in your mind or dreams, but when you deal with the real experience its nothing like dreams. There are various aspects of life where you have to choose things. If you stay in the dream-world you will lose everything, so learn to prioritize your life with different aspects. It is ok to be flexible about your decisions because of rigid things always breakout first.

Secondly, do not trust the future promises, that they will do something for you, for instance; they will be more affectionate to you and give you more time. But you will get nothing until they do it. People keep waiting for someone and their lives are at the worst stakes, please do not do this. If they want to do something for you they don’t have to promise about it. No one has seen the future, so learn to live in the present.
Thirdly, don’t be afraid to end-up a dating relationship without a potential, as people try to make it more serious and cause more problems. Do not waste your precious time on someone who never going to care. Even if you do your best for them, they are not going to be happy which will ultimately hurt you.

There are various other mistakes people do such as lack of commitment, drama, and compatibility.

But no relationship is perfect and does not run behind perfection.

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Moving on

When you don’t want to end a relationship in the first place you can never move on. Indeed, our heart never forgets how it loves. A person can only learn to love more or less or being loved more than previously. You have to admit some things if you want to move on, otherwise, you will feel miserable.

Do not stick in between it’s over or not. Think and decide if you want to make it end, if so then how. If you do not want to end it you cannot move on.

Do not hope for anything, if you kept thinking to be together one day, man it’s not over yet. You are making yourself fool that it’s finished because your heart is still hoping that you guys will be together again. The day you feel that you don’t want to be together, never, that is the day it will be over. Undoubtedly, it is painful to move on, but it’s better to than keeping false hopes.

The other thing you need to accept is that you do not need closure from your ex. If you are still hoping it, then it’s not over. Only acceptance will help you in your journey and growth, the early you accept things the less you will be hurt. Make sure your thoughts and decisions are respected by another person, if not move on.

There is nothing left for you in that space, so let go and move on.

Are you ready for a relationship?

People often talk about the things which they actually, never do. They can convince you of their talk but are you sure if they are not lying? Always go with evidence because they can break you. Make sure if they really want a relationship or just wasting your time.

How will you recognize a healthy relationship?

Here are some things to look out:

Find a balance between their emotional statements and logical actions. Someone can make a fake promise in their emotions which they cannot fulfill or they do not want to. Because if they want to they must have done it.
It is always a good indication if people frankly talk about their feelings about you but again always look for the actions not just words. If people are not afraid to represent the vulnerability then, they want to be in a healthy relationship with you. Because, if they are afraid to open up publicly about you that means to run away, it’s not worth it.
If people discuss both negative and positive aspects of their relationship that means they want to be with you. If they just say positive things and do not give attention to the negative aspects, they might not be seriously considering you for a relationship. They are just having fun with or using you.
Most often people are afraid to lose someone due to some fears such as beauty, but if they accept you in the same way you are. It means they are ready for a relationship. The insecurities in relationships are the most common reason for its failure.
If you are feeling insecure that they will leave one day because you are not pretty or modern, leave it. Because if your partner wants you they would never let you feel insecure.

The long distance relationship is hard to fulfill. People often make mistakes when they are far from their love. As per my thinking I have some rules that i follow to maintain my long distance relationship. These tips are following-

Avoid excessive communication.
Set some ground rules to manage your expectations.
Try to communicate regularly and with creativity.
Do things together
Enjoy your alone time.
Stay honest with each other.
Know each other’s schedule.
Avoid overthinking.
Keep each other updated on each other’s friends and family.
Know each other’s schedule.

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